Monday, February 23, 2009

Porn

So far most of the guys I spoke to said they enjoy watching porn. Most of them watch it for the fun of it. It seems like it is part of their regular routine to watch porn. I am ok if my man wants to watch porn but I will NOT watch it together with him. I don't like to watch porn. I feel that to most guys watching porn is just like watching a football match, which is normal to them, so long as it is just for fun and nothing else. Some guys I spoke to told fashionably yours that porn is actually far better in some circumstances than you might think. It's how you want it, no foreplay in the sense of dinners etc, no afterplay in the sense of she staying at your place: Perfect !

Sometimes the woman may feel sick when they found out that their man are watching porn. Was it something wrong with themselves that they could not fulfill their man so their man are watching porn. I don’t think there is any problem with the woman. It is just that most men generally psychologically has this thing inside them wanting to watch porn and it turns them on. Also sometimes their other half in real life might not perform some of the positions and actions which the porn actress did in the porn. They just wanna enjoy watching it only. I may not be right on this though……

Porn is definitely not my cup of tea and I of course don’t encourage people to watch it. However if my man enjoy watching it just for the fun of it and laugh it off, I will not stop him, as long as it is harmless. Of course I do not want him to watch behind my back…at least inform me he is watching porn. I don’t like my man to lie to me. At least talk it out and be truthful to each other and tell me the reasons why he is watching it. I am rather open on this. I know some of the men watch porn but lie to their wives or girlfriends which can upset them. They watch behind their back and did not tell their wives or girlfriends for fear they will be hurt. Initially the wives and girlfriends will feel hurt , disgusting and sad but I think anything can be discussed and talked it out.

What is your take on man watching porn ? Feel free to give your opinions, especially the man who are reading this. No hard feelings, just your voice only. Cheers :)

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