Do you jump immediately into a new relationship after ended one ?

How long do you need to get over a relationship before you embark on a new relationship ? A few days to a few years ? I think one should not embark on a new relationship immediately after ended one. One should take some time to do some reflections before moving on to a new relationship. I know some people will simply jump to another new relationship once their old relationship has ended. This type of situation might be because there is already an exisitng third party involved even before their current relationship has ended. However if there is no existing third party involved, I feel that one should take some time to do some reflections and soul searching before moving on to another new relationship. There is no hard and fast rules as to how much time one need to be alone to get over a relationship before embarking into another new relationship. I think as long as the individual has met the right person at the right timing at the right place, he or she should go for it. However it is best not to be involved in another new relationship immediately after ended one. At least have a short break to reflect before moving on. Also to give yourself some time to get to know the new person in order not to make the same mistakes or make the mistakes of treating that new person as a substitute for your ex-partner, which is not fair to her or him.

Well that is my take on relationships turn around time on embarking a new relationship after ended old relationship with ex-partners. Feel free to share your opinon and comments, no hard feelings. Thanks.

Porn

So far most of the guys I spoke to said they enjoy watching porn. Most of them watch it for the fun of it. It seems like it is part of their regular routine to watch porn. I am ok if my man wants to watch porn but I will NOT watch it together with him. I don't like to watch porn. I feel that to most guys watching porn is just like watching a football match, which is normal to them, so long as it is just for fun and nothing else. Some guys I spoke to told fashionably yours that porn is actually far better in some circumstances than you might think. It's how you want it, no foreplay in the sense of dinners etc, no afterplay in the sense of she staying at your place: Perfect !

Sometimes the woman may feel sick when they found out that their man are watching porn. Was it something wrong with themselves that they could not fulfill their man so their man are watching porn. I don’t think there is any problem with the woman. It is just that most men generally psychologically has this thing inside them wanting to watch porn and it turns them on. Also sometimes their other half in real life might not perform some of the positions and actions which the porn actress did in the porn. They just wanna enjoy watching it only. I may not be right on this though……

Porn is definitely not my cup of tea and I of course don’t encourage people to watch it. However if my man enjoy watching it just for the fun of it and laugh it off, I will not stop him, as long as it is harmless. Of course I do not want him to watch behind my back…at least inform me he is watching porn. I don’t like my man to lie to me. At least talk it out and be truthful to each other and tell me the reasons why he is watching it. I am rather open on this. I know some of the men watch porn but lie to their wives or girlfriends which can upset them. They watch behind their back and did not tell their wives or girlfriends for fear they will be hurt. Initially the wives and girlfriends will feel hurt , disgusting and sad but I think anything can be discussed and talked it out.

What is your take on man watching porn ? Feel free to give your opinions, especially the man who are reading this. No hard feelings, just your voice only. Cheers :)

Pre Nuptials Agreement

Last Friday night I was chatting with my American friend. He brought up the topic of Pre Nuptials Agreement (Preups). He said he will not get married unless a Preups is done. Well it was reported in the Sunday Times today about signing Preups.

A Preups is basically a contractual agreement signed before the marriage takes place. It will state terms such as the assets acquired before marriage is not liable to be shared equally with the spouse in case a divorce took place. The couples are only liable to the assets acquired together during the marriage. It can also state other terms and conditions accordingly to what the couples want it to be in the Preups. It is very common in Europe and America. This can avoid quarrels during divorce in the event the marriage broke down. It is also proof that one get married out of love and not money or assets one is after.

Fashionably yours is ok with getting a Preups done before marriage. Will you get a Preups done before marriage, given a choice ? Feel free to give your take on this....no hard feelings. Thanks :)